No Label

“…not because we’re not into the person we’re dating, but because we know that being someone’s significant other requires some sacrifices and selflessness that we’re just not ready or willing to make.”

– TC article by Chelsea Forbes-Terrye 


I’ll Never Let Us End


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No happy ending, then.

I don’t get sick of writing about her. Even when I think I’m starting to get a bit obsessed about it, I think this is the sort of thing that just comes with this sort of love. You know, the kind that won’t go away? She loves me as much as I love her, as surprising as it seems, and I don’t ever want to let go. Neither do I want her to let go of me. But.

In every love story, everyone thinks that either they break up, or they have the happy ending that everybody else wants. For me, I don’t think that we’ll actually have either. I know, right now, it seems that we’ll break up with all the constant fighting, the lying, the misunderstandings, and all those general quirks that come after a time of being in a relationship with…

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20 Things People Who Have Climbed From Rock Bottom Will Understand

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I’ve always felt that the ever-quoted Maya Angelou said it best:

‘You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them.’

I believe that hardship offers people two roads, two diverging paths that will dictate where you go from the bottom. Darkness, and light; the beaten path and the road less traveled, if you will. As with most things in life, it all comes down to perspective –will I let this tear me apart and hold me down, or will I learn from this pain and make myself stronger?  When all the superfluous bullshit is stripped away and you’re left naked in the dark, you either make yourself a home in the Pit, or you find a way to climb out.

The moment you hit rock bottom is the moment you discover who you…

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I no longer have patience

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“I no longer have patience for certain things, not because I’ve become arrogant, but simply because I reached a point in my life where I do not want to waste more time with what displeases me or hurts me. I have no patience for cynicism, excessive criticism and demands of any nature. I lost the will to please those who do not like me, to love those who do not love me and to smile at those who do not want to smile at me. I no longer spend a single minute on those who lie or want to manipulate. I decided not to coexist anymore with pretense, hypocrisy, dishonesty and cheap praise. I do not tolerate selective erudition nor academic arrogance. I do not adjust either to popular gossiping. I hate conflict and comparisons. I believe in a world of opposites and that’s why I avoid people with…

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7 Reasons Dating A Crazy Girl Is Better Than Dating A “Normal” One

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1. There’s rarely a dull moment.

Crazy girls act on any urge to do wild, irrational things, which often leads to the relationship being spontaneous and fun. You’ll do things like trespass for an unplanned adventure, you’ll have impromptu sex in random locations, you’ll get your adrenaline fix on plenty of occasions.

Also, crazy girls don’t play those ‘Guess Why I’m Mad At You’ shenanigans. You’ll never be a contestant on the miserable game show that is figuring out why your girlfriend is being short and looks like the frown-faced emoji. This can be good and bad, because spats are usually pretty intense. I’m not condoning or praising anything as extreme as verbal abuse, however, it can be refreshing to not have to dig to find out why you’re in the dog house.

2. Sometimes it’s a good feeling to see someone so worked up & passionate over…

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The Most Important Parts Of A Relationship Aren’t The Good Times


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Remember all of the times that you don’t feel better. Every argument that ends with more issues unsettled than when it began. All the times when you wish you could bottle the passion he had in the last three sentences and give it back to him to save for later use. Remember all of the times he made a good point, but it was a point you didn’t want to hear. You were being selfish, but the words came spilling out before you had the chance to think it over. Remember the times you want to scream at the very top of your lungs, because it may be the only thing that saves you. As he keeps his emotions as tight as a spool of thread, yours explode like popcorn kernels in a microwave.

He loves you, and you know it. You wouldn’t be here if he didn’t. You can…

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Table for One

“Other times we rush headlong into something more serious than we are ready for because we assume that we’re supposed to want it.”

TC article from Harris O’Malley

This just convinced me that I should be single.

I should really stop reading TC articles. Single or not, does it really matter? What I want this year is to invest on myself and do what I want. Too tired of dealing with all the drama around me. I should just let things be and stop thinking too much into them.

Cheers to a happier semester! Hope my late SPP Report will work out just fine.